Gender Queer: A Memoir

Gender Queer has several scenes that are sexually explicit and are often cited in censorship challenges in school districts. What would change if these scenes were omitted or heavily censored to avoid any depictions of sexually explicit material? Consider how this might affect the tone and the book’s overall themes.

Media and art are important for Kobabe’s self-discovery. From music to books, e seeks out art that reflects emself. What is a piece of media that has helped you understand yourself, and how does that relate to Kobabe’s experiences? Make sure to quote specific instances of Kobabe’s interactions with art to reflect on your own experience.

How do Kobabe’s metaphors for gender evolve and change over time? Think back to eir use of the two-half souls, the scale, and the sleeping seed. What aspects of eir conception of gender become more nuanced or change entirely over time? Consider the implications of these metaphors beyond what is on the page.